Defining Your Sissy Sexuality in a Basic Simple Way

Talking About Sissies

I know that there are many nuances and varieties of human sexuality, and I mean no disrespect to the wide variety of appetites you may have. I just want to touch on two basic, broad options you have as a sissy. Let’s first agree on one thing: you enjoy being a female wearing feminine clothing. With that agreed upon, let’s continue!

Simplifying Sexuality

I know there are many labels for everything sexual. I am going to keep this simple by calling all you gals sissies. In my opinion, there are two options for the sissy to partner with sexually- males and females. So you, identifying as female, either want to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Where it can get interesting of course, is if the female you desire is also a sissy, but that is just an added label I’m not getting into right now.

Thinking Outside the Box

Have you considered that there just may be a woman out there who wants a sissy girl lover? That you may never use your penis again, but she may use her strap-on on you! Conversely, having a boyfriend means you get to be the lady of the house, and have a man who will potentially adore you. Even in a D/s relationship, there is compassion, affection, and respect. sissy variety

Multifaceted Expectations

Many people don’t consider that every sissy isn’t trying to be a little sissy housemaid down on her knees servicing her master. Your relationships are just as messy and complicated as people who don’t have any gender identity differences, who identify as the gender they were born with.

Stand Up for Yourself

The takeaway message here is don’t let anyone put sissy in a box. You get to decide what your romantic and sexual relationships look like, even if you identify as submissive. You’ve heard the phrase “safe, sane, and consensual”, and that goes for every relationship you may find yourself in, no matter your sexuality. You give them control, they don’t take it!





  1. ted bauer February 25, 2019

    Thankyou for the educational materail .i look forward to being a better sissy in 2019 thankyou .thankyou subbie ted

    • Ms. Stephanie May 16, 2019

      subbie ted- I am glad you are finding the articles educational and informative! Here’s hoping your 2019 is already better as a sissy!

  2. Paulina April 23, 2019

    I’m not gay nor into guys but just like wearing bras/panties/dresses/lipsticks/perfumes/leggings/yoga pants/blouses/knee high and ankle boots/women’s turtleneck sweaters/wigs. It just feels so much better then my boy clothes as the fabrics are so soft against my girlish waxed smooth skin. My masseuse knows about this as she’s dressed/put lipstick/makeup on me along with wearing bras/panties/dresses/wigs taking pictures of me with her phone. With her doing this I’m no longer boyfriend material anymore as she can hit send anytime she wants. Though she’s married she told me not to worry about her husband and not care what others think. She said not to fight this and to accept that this is who I am and become.

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