Most who’ve been around the Enchantrix Empire long enough know there’s more than one type of sissy. But have you ever heard of a sissy princess? How about a sissy brat?

Incidentally, the two are often confused. A sissy might believe she’s one, when really she’s the other.

Sometimes she might not realize she’s either one, despite having all the characteristics!

Dominants can also confuse the two, and simply mistake a sissy brat with, say, a sissy with sass.

And there isn’t necessarily anything wrong with that. Things don’t always need to be in neat little boxes, especially just to be enjoyed!

The problem arises when this lack of realization and understanding causes frustration for the sissy, and possible consternation for the dominant!

Hence, the inspiration for this little (two part, obviously *giggle*) series!

The first will be devoted to the sissy brat. The second, to the sissy princess. Both have the same aims:

• to paint a clear picture of each, thereby
• alleviating confusion, thus hopefully
• assuring all parties of the best femdom phone sex experience possible!

Whether you’re a dominant or a submissive, you may find you’re familiar with the traits of one or both types of sissy, but simply didn’t realize the adjectives describe a particular sub-genre of this feminization kink!

All the more reason for your sissy Mistress Rachel to set the record straight!

At least according to Her! Because after all, there’s at least as much diversity among Femdommes as there is among sissies, and I’m only speaking for Myself.

That said, My conclusions are based on a lot of experience, and a fair amount of informal research!

Also, don’t take this too seriously; it’s supposed to be kind of fun!

The best learning is done when you can have fun at the same time, right?

That doesn’t mean it’s not useful!

Anything that helps you get to know your sissy self better will benefit you in the end.

Especially when it comes to seeking out a sissy Mistress!

When you know what your needs are, you’ll suss out whether or not a given Mistress is right for you with more accuracy!

I predict you’ll come out of reading My little series with one or more of the following conclusions:

• you don’t see yourself at all in either the sissy brat or the sissy princess, or
• you end up surprised that either the sissy princess or the sissy brat describe you to a tee, or
• you feel validated that you are as you have always thought of your sissy self, or
• you find that there are elements of both the sissy brat and the sissy princess in your kink personality!

If any of My fellow dominants are reading, they may recognize the same things, but regarding a sissy in their charge.

To top it all off, you’ll have the chance to take an audio quiz at the end to get a further look into how much of the sissy brat you may have in you!

You’ll have the same opportunity once again when I’ve published the sissy princess “profile” in a week or two!

But you might suspect where you fall well before then. *wink*

Let’s start by establishing a frame of reference.

The Sissy Brat vs. The Classic Sissy

At the start, I acknowledged that there are myriad ways to be a sissy. It goes without saying that there’s no one right way, your Mistress’ vision notwithstanding.

But W/e can’t deny that there’s a classic definition of “sissy” from whence all others come, can W/e?

And I’m not just talking about “classic” terms of dress (you know, the short, pastel satin throwback girls’ party dress with puffy sleeves, crinolines, and Shirley Temple curls, or the sissy maid in a similar style).

Aside from that, the classic definition of a sissy, or, at least the one I learned long ago, and have continued to use as a frame of reference ever since, is a self-described submissive male with a yen for feminization. Usually coerced or seduced feminization.

Often there’s an element of humiliation involved in the training of the “frilly sissy”. In addition, corporeal punishment, chastity, or both are often employed during traditional sissy training.

Furthermore, and frankly speaking, the classic sissy is often a slut. Often, but not always, for real men, and is either so by nature, or compelled to be so by her Mistress.

Now let’s contrast the classic sissy with the sissy brat, shall W/e?

Introducing the sissy brat.

There isn’t one predictable style of dress with regard to the sissy brat, though most often she’ll appear somewhere between cute and slutty.

A sissy brat is best described by how she behaves, and what she tends to seek in a D/s relationship.

Yes, she’s still a girlyboi slut, but if she’s anyone’s fuckdoll, it’s only because she wants to be. She isn’t usually interested in being controlled, used, or abused sexually, whether that be by Alpha males or dominant women.

In fact, she can be quite high-strung in terms of the type of treatment to which she’ll be receptive.

Needless to say, dominants willing to engage the sissy brat should probably be in line for sainthood, because they can require an exceeding amount of patience and forbearance.

Then again, some dominants love them to pieces!

You may already be wondering whether or not I’m one of those “dominants who love them to pieces”, but you’ll have to read to the end to find that out.

And if you skip ahead, something tells Me you’ve got a bit of the sissy brat in you even before you share your quiz results! *giggle*

But let’s get back to the discussion.

You might ask, how do the sissy brat traits I’ve described manifest themselves?

A good way to understand that is by taking a look at the hypothetical interaction between her and her dominant.

Unconventional interaction and incentives

Even if she’s in a situation she enjoys, the sissy brat isn’t likely to conduct herself as one might expect from a submissive. For example, she’s liable to respond, “make me” or “why should I” in response to a direction.

Some sissy brats hope their defiance will be repaid with punishment. This might seem contrary to their previously-described high-strung nature, but it’s not impossible to be a sissy brat and still have a secondary kink interest in corrective spanking or cbt.

For most, however, effective punishment is less likely to be impact-play-based, and more likely to be, say, the withholding of a special treat. In My experience, the majority of sissy brats don’t respond to or desire harsh verbal correction or physical punishment at all.

In fact, they often bridle under perceived abuse or mistreatment, or most types of humiliation, for that matter.

So how does a Mistress control them?

Perhaps the most effective means of securing compliance from this type of sissy brat is to cajole.

“If you do this, I’ll do that.”

That’s not to say that discipline is impossible with a sissy brat, or that their dominant can only succeed in shaping them by sweet-talking. The same treat or privilege that can be offered to cajole can be withheld to convince.

If the dominant seeks to withhold as a means of securing compliance, the most effective thing to withhold is attention.

“Really, sissy, you are My bratty little fluffy-wuffy pretty sissy muffykins, but your behavior is most unpleasant right now. I’m not going to talk to you when you behave like that. So I’ll just sit here in silence until you can show Me you’re going to be nice.”

See how that works? Furthermore, it’s to the dominat’s advantage to follow the resulting compliance or improved behavior with positive reinforcement. A sincere “good gurl” might assure an easier time regarding the subject at hand in the future.

Note that I said “easier”. Not easy. The sissy brat is rarely easy.

I also said “might”. *giggle*

But let’s continue.

Is the sissy brat even submissive?

The sissy brat is still on the “s” side of the D/s dynamic. But you would be forgiven for thinking otherwise. Many a sissy brat has been accused of topping from the bottom.

She is not, however, a submissive who simply doesn’t know how to submit. She very much needs the attention and guidance of someone with the power and self-possession to respond to her appropriately.

No matter how bratty her behavior, if a sissy brat wants to be with or belong to you, she likely wants it very much indeed. Even if she tries to hide that fact behind tiresome behavior. And if the dominant can see through her sometimes tiresome behavior to this core truth, a sissy brat can be a lot of fun!

Are you a sissy brat?

Or if you’re a dominant, may you have unwittingly engaged one?

Hopefully this post has helped you to discern that, and maybe even given you some ideas about how to wrangle her!

There’s one other thing that I hope this post has helped make clear to all: It’s important not to make each other guess. As you can no doubt see, a sissy brat, her dominant, and ideally both of them, are best served by the acknowledged and disclosed fact that a sissy brat is exactly that.

And I mean before a session is undertaken.

First, for the reasons outlined at the beginning of this post, and second, because assuming someone is a sissy brat without confirmation can a.) hurt the feelings of a sissy who isn’t one, and b.) have a dominant pouring one kind of energy into a sissy who really requires another.

And Me? Do I have what it takes to be the Sissy Mistress to a sissy brat?

Goddess Rachel and the Sissy Brat

Well, that depends.

The sissy brat who desires the attention of Goddess Rachel should acknowledge that I am just that–a Goddess. A benevolent one, to be sure, who can be entertained rather than annoyed by the antics of such a creature, but a Goddess nonetheless.

Furthermore, even though I understand the core of the sissy brat, and could never truly get angry with a confirmed one, I favor spanking as a means of correction more than offering treats. When My limit has been reached or boundaries pressed, I find that a good paddling reminds even the brattiest sissy of her ultimate place, that she is on the “s” side of the D/s dynamic, and that at some point, her behavior will need to reflect that.

Gurls who can’t be cajoled with incentives or convinced to be My hand and administer correction when needed might find themselves in an ignore session!

Only until I secure the promise of better behavior, however. *wink*

All in all, the sissy brat can come to Me knowing that Goddess Rachel will countenance a certain amount of “kicking up a fuss” as a matter of course, but that in the battle of wills, Mistress will always win.

And frankly, she should want that. Because in the end, the sissy brat needs the strength, direction, and confidence of a dominant, no matter how much in possession of her own free will she desires to remain.

Does all that make sense?

If not, feel free to get in touch with any questions.

Now, listen in below to take the quiz.

Let’s find out how much sissy brat you’ve got in you!

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xx

Goddess Rachel, Sissy Brat Tamer

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